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  • Why β€˜Have You Eaten?’ Is a Greeting

    Namastey, Marhabaan, OlΓ‘, Konnichiwa, Bonjour, Zdravstvuyte -have you ever stopped to wonder how a simple β€œπ’‰π’†π’π’π’β€ sounds so different in every language. The stories that led to each if those specific hellos is even more fascinating. Lets dive into a few of these common phrases that we pick up as language learners and understand the history and culture behind it.

    Ok so when we start learning a new language, we usually start with some basic phrases like β€œπ’‰π’†π’π’π’,” β€œπ’‰π’π’˜ 𝒂𝒓𝒆 π’šπ’π’–,” β€œπ’•π’‰π’‚π’π’Œ π’šπ’π’–.” What we often dont learn is the π’‰π’Šπ’”π’•π’π’“π’š, the 𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆, the 𝒗𝒂𝒍𝒖𝒆 , 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’„π’π’π’π’†π’„π’•π’Šπ’—π’† π’Žπ’†π’Žπ’π’“π’š behind each of these phrases

    In English ,when we greet someone, we say β€œπ‘―π’†π’π’π’, π’‰π’π’˜ 𝒂𝒓𝒆 π’šπ’π’–?” It’s a polite question that conveys π’˜π’‚π’“π’Žπ’•π’‰ 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑔𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑒 π‘π‘œπ‘›π‘π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘›/ π‘π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘–π‘œπ‘ π‘–π‘‘π‘¦ towards someone.

    π‘΅π’π’˜ lets take π‘ͺπ’‰π’Šπ’π’†π’”π’†. In my class I usually start with Nǐ hǎo (δ½ ε₯½) which is the dictionary equivalent of hello. But I always follow it up with a disclaimer: In daily life in China, you wont hear people greeting each other that way often. Instead, you are more likely to hear β€œπ‘΅π’Š π’„π’‰π’Š 𝒍𝒆 π’Žπ’‚?” (你吃了吗?) which quite literally mean, β€œπ‘―π’‚π’—π’† π’šπ’π’– 𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒏?
    To someone not accustomed to the cultural context, this sounds odd, and honestly while I was learning Chinese I actually thought when someone asks you β€œπ‘΅π’Š π’„π’‰π’Š 𝒍𝒆 π’Žπ’‚?” (你吃了吗?) and when you answer no, a follow up meal invite would follow. Now I was using my Indian conditioning to understand Chinese culture. Well no surprises there, I never got invited over for meals after I answered β€œHΓ‘i mΓ©i” (还沑), which seemed rather impolite at that time.

    However once I learnt the profound historical reasons behind that question not only did I appreciate that way of greeting more, I also adopted it. So China was subjected to recurring famines and food shortages for centuries. In a time when food was scarce, to have eaten meant to be secure, healthy and fortunate. Thus β€œπ‘―π’‚π’—π’† π’šπ’π’– 𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒏? β€œ became and still remains a natural way to ask someone about their wellbeing.

    Thinking about it, It is no different from asking β€œHow are you?” its only through the prism of what mattered most to the folks back then and even now.

    These stories are everywhere, I often hear β€œπ‘Άπ’•π’”π’–π’Œπ’‚π’“π’†π’”π’‚π’Žπ’‚ 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒖” (γŠη–²γ‚Œζ§˜γ§γ™) being exchanged among among coworkers, friends, family member here in Japan (my boss would always bow to me and say this while I finished work and was about to leave for home) . It literally means, β€œπ’€π’π’– π’Žπ’–π’”π’• 𝒃𝒆 π’•π’Šπ’“π’†π’…β€ 𝒐𝒓 β€œπ‘»π’‰π’‚π’π’Œ π’šπ’π’– 𝒇𝒐𝒓 π’šπ’π’–π’“ 𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒅 π’˜π’π’“π’Œ.” Now this is a reflection of Japan’s intense work ethics and respect for efforts and persistence. There is a similar phrase in Chinese which conveys the exact same sentiment- β€œXΔ«nkΗ” nǐleβ€οΌˆθΎ›θ‹¦δ½ δΊ†οΌ‰


    In Arab culture, people greet with blessings and peace wishes β€œπ‘¨π’”-π’”π’‚π’π’‚π’Žπ’– π’‚π’π’‚π’šπ’Œπ’–π’Žβ€ which π’Žπ’†π’‚π’π’” β€œπ‘·π’†π’‚π’„π’† 𝒃𝒆 𝒖𝒑𝒐𝒏 π’šπ’π’–,” testifying to the passionate and deep desire of peace and safety. Like every part of the world, the Arab world has also witnessed its share of destructions, wars and loss of human life, This simple greeting is a nod to those turbulent times and a heartfelt wish that such hardship never returns -a daily reminder to hope for peace for one another.

    So what does it all mean? Simple yet profound.

    π‘³π’‚π’π’ˆπ’–π’‚π’ˆπ’†π’” 𝒂𝒓𝒆 π’π’Šπ’—π’Šπ’π’ˆ π’“π’†π’‡π’π’†π’„π’•π’Šπ’π’π’” 𝒐𝒇 π’•π’‰π’†π’Šπ’“ π’”π’‘π’†π’‚π’Œπ’†π’“π’”.

    They evolve along with history, culture, climate, wars and the society. Just as each of us carry an imprint of our upbringing, education, culture, Languages too have a personality-Unique and multifaceted. So next time you acquire a new greeting or expression, do pause and reflect on the cultural and historical context. You might just discover that a simple β€œπ’‰π’†π’π’π’β€ is not that simple after all.

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